I have swelling between my balls and anus but closer to my balls, its almost black in color. when im sitting on the toilet i can feel it bulging out but it doesnt cause my any pain or anything. im wondering what it is and how to it to go away.

Seek medical consult: What you describe may (or may not) be serious. You should seek medical consultation right away, so that a doctor can get more information, & advise you appropriately. HealthTap consultations are available; just start over & click on Talk-to-Dr. You can choose video or text, & you can upload pictures, or documents such as test results. Or, call your doctor's office. I hope you feel better soon!