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In my childhood m suffered from rape now i wanna closed my virginia wht can i do plz help me i m in big trouble can u pz help me ? ? just bcoz my marriage is fixed in 2 weeks m getting married help me... answer my question plz as soon as possible?

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Some basics: Marriage is not a union to enter with secrets that would at sometimes embarrass or ruin your relationship.I would seek counseling on how to communicate with your potential spouse. Your post does not reveal where you are, but such hymen repair is not done routinely in the US and would likely require more than 2 weeks to heal if it was.

Answered 6/24/2020

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Surgical procedure: I agree with Dr. Ferguson. This medical practice is one which is not done in the United States. Surgical closure would certainly not heal within 2 weeks. I know that this can be a delicate issue in many cultures but I also believe in sharing important information. By the way, most women do not have an intact hymen at age 20.

Answered 6/24/2020

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Veracity : I will suggest that you try to forget unfortunate past and enter your married life as an independent, caring, loving wife with your head held high. These days use of tampon etc can cause hymen rupture. If your behavior will win the heart of your husband , I doubt that shape of hymen will matter. If it does, tell the truth. Good luck.

Answered 6/26/2020

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