I had sex with a girl twice (protected) and oral (unprotected). she told me she has hsv2 but she has it under control and there were no breakouts in the past one year. what should i do next? i'm not involved with her anymore.

Do nothing: Average transmission from vaginal sex if partner has HSV2 is aroundr 1 in a thousand, Your risk far lower than that:: 1) her infection seems in good control, 2) used condom for vaginal, 3) oral no risk, 4) you haven't had symptoms. For every woman who knows she has HSV2 and tells you, many other partners also have it. Virtually no risk from this: don't be tested, no need to tell future partners.

Contact: If she was not having outbreak at time of contact. Your risk is low.