I have not been diagnosed but i'm sure i have genital warts, will the virus or warts ever go away? i'm very worried that's why i have not seen a doc?

No : They will not resolve without intervention. So. You need to have excellent hygiene to try to stop spreading then you must see your doctor for treatment

Get seen: Everybody has at least one or two strains of HPV viruses on their skin, and most have a few that focus on these areas. With visible lesions, it's a serious personal liability. To be brave, act brave. Head on in and get them lasered / treated / evaluated. Do like everybody should and use barrier protection until you're in a stable marriage. And be proud that you've shared love. Best wishes.