Slept with lady who had herpes. 2days later she had outbreak. i got red spot on penis 1 day after sex. changed to black next and peeled. am i infected?

Here are some ...: Herpetic lesion wouldn't heal up in 1-2 days, but runs its certain course. So, the reported lesion may not be associated with HSV infection. But if your lifestyle and sexual practice are in high-risk category for contracting STD, go to Doc for testing and counseling soon for current concern and for future prevention. At this time, I wouldn't guess yes or no for being infected.

Unlikely: since herpes is usually spread when vesicles appear or are not fully healed! Hope this helps Dr Z