Never had sex but was fingered (not 1st time) and bled. was bright red and lasted 1-2 hrs. didn't hurt during but after, esp. peeing. sore for a while

Normal, no worries: And if you stick to fingers, you don't have to worry about an unwanted pregnancy or a sneaky STD like herpes, HPV, which can lead to cervical cancer. And don't forget the critters like crab lice, & trichomonas, & of course gonorrhea & chlamydia.If you choose to go past that point, I recommend on oral BCP (and a condom for the critters!). Good to test for Factor V Leiden to make sure no clot risk!