I had a laser vulva surgery and healing the inside is healed together can i pull it apart myself with lidocaine?

See your doctor.: Even without details about what kind of surgery you had and for what reason, i can tell you that trying to pull something apart that appears to be healed together is a bad idea. Follow up with the provider that did the procedure- they want to hear about any problems you are having with the healing process, and will likely want to see the area!