Under tongue hubby has red puffy sore with white in it? herpes? also red spots on penis that don't look like sores and not painful. itch and burn pee

Need to examine: This could be a stone in a salivary duct; unusual location for a herpetic lesion. Hopefully this has nothing to do with his penis. Best advice is to go and get him examined by a doctor who can obtain a full detailed history and evaluate these issues appropriately.

Unrelated: Probably not from same cause. Need to see dentist or oral surgeon and also physician or urologist for examinations to determine causes and treatments.