Mom of 3 about to lose partner over chronic health issues, he is giving up. dr can't give answers to anything. he has history of pe, gout, cervical disc disease, and ledderhosen. 35 in pain 24/7. why?

Go to mayo clinic : Complex issues do best with coordinated evaluation and treatment. I've had a number of patients go to mayo ( minnesota and florida at least) and may be worth the time and expense. Chronic illness in a spouse is an incredible challenge though so don't feel unusual. Consider couples counseling too. Good luck!

Chronic pain: Non cancer syndrome. Affect as many as 50 millions americans and is associated with many conditions. Each patient should be evaluated within the context of his/her psychological state and belief, family support, and social and work environment. A comprehensive coordinated approach of treatment including pain specialist, rehabilitation, behavioral therapy, co morbid conditions, pharmacology and.

Bigger issues: Gout, pe are diseases for which prevention is key. Cervical discs may cause pain where pain reduction may only be partially possible. Question is: are goals unrealistic? Zero pain rarely achievable. Or is there secondary untreated depression? Or this is a "poor me, why does this all happen to me" issue. Declining social life, sex, work life requires action. New doc maybe? New partner?