I've been diagnosed with pots and a connective tissue disorder. the cardiologist said this could explain years of problems and pain. a geneticist is next.this has been so difficult. what does it mean?

Need to seek causes: Pots & connective tissue disorder are syndromes that may partly explain your problems but the deeper question is what is the underlying cause of these. Western medicine doesn't know, but a holistic doctor can explore issues like adrenal fatigue, heavy metal toxicity, food allergies, nutrient deficiencies & chronic infections that may lead to your problems being cured rather than treating symptoms.

Nonspecific answer: Pots can be frustrating...Lots of unpleasant symptoms but often difficult to diagnose & control. Connective tissue disorder refers to a group of conditions that are autoimmune in origin--i.e., the immune system attacking the body in some way. Identifying a more specific diagnosis will be important for determining the best treatment approach. At least now you can focus on addressing the problem...

POTS: I don't think pots has anything to do with pain if you mean postural tachycardia syndrome. It tends to run in the family. That's why fenetic counseling.