Should marriage be 50/50? where do women get the idea that men should go out and do all the work support the house while the wife stay home all day?

Marriage: People have very different expectations of male and female or partner roles in relationships. Some have traditional views/expectations and others 50/50, and others have even more non-traditional expectations. The most important aspect is mutual respect. Communicate your concerns and needs with your husband/partner and seek professional help if needed to address the challenges.

Marriage: I don't think most or all women have this perspective, perhaps you feel that your marriage is in this category and thus would benefit from seeing a marital therapist. Best wishes.