Or do i have a seripus anger problem because when im mad there is no calming me down even if i destroy soneones property i don't kow what to do?

You need help!: It's not normal for someone to destroy someone else's property to calm down. I am sure you are aware of the problem there. Please seek professional help, starting either with a clinical psychologist familiar with cognitive behavioral therapy or a good psychiatrist, who has patience to evaluate your underlying issues, and treat your anger symptoms appropriately. Also try finding a support group.

See a counselor: This is hard to do all alone-I would definitely suggest you see a counselor to help you develop a road map and access whether medication may be necessary.