Severe dizziness, loss of appetite, fatigue, ear infections both ears, blurry vision, muscle twitches, brain jolts, been to multiple different ers and drs, every test was normal , been almost a year now and i hate it?

Challenging to think there is no answer or solution, but before you fully despair, contact a local medical school and obtain an opinion with both neurology and otolaryngology. Your description, to me, suggests that most of your symptoms are inner ear and vestibular. You may well have Meniere's Disease, and if so, you might respond to appropriate interventions.