What could be causing severe abdominal pains (8/10) and sometimes bleeding after sexual intercourse? and every pap smear i bleed and doc gives me the same gel.

Pain, bleeding: sex: The pain after intercourse may be due to deep penetration with stretching of suspensory ligaments. Bleeding after sex and/or pap smears is probably due to an inflamed cervix which bleeds on contact. The latter can be treated by hot or cold cautery and at least the post-coital bleeding will stop: talk to your gyn physician about this.