I have the urge to pee but when i go to the bathroom i cannot pee. start of bladder infection? any ways to fix or prevent this from happening?

Urinary infection: This urinary urgency that you describe could indeed be a sign of infection. I would definitely go to your doctor's where they can take a urine sample to evaluate more fully. You want to get a diagnosis and get the right treatment, because sometimes simple urinary infections can progress to a kidney infection, which is obviously more serious. As to prevention -stay hydrated and possibly + cranberry