When i urinate it stops as if i'm done then starts all over. i do that 2 maybe 3 times efore i'm done?

Retaining urine: If your urine flow stops and starts a few times during voiding then you may be having a problem emptying the bladder. This can be caused by a bladder issue where it is not able to generate as much force, but is more likely to be related to an obstruction in the urethra (urine tube) that the urine travels through given your age. You should see urologist for an evaluation.