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A member asked:
When i masterbate i can orgasm easily but during normal and oral sex i can't bring myself to orgasm. is this normal?
9 doctors weighed in across 4 answers
Not normal: You should stop masturbation at least temporarily to reset the mechanism which bring you to orgasm. Hopefully this will make it work . If it doesn't then see a sex therapist.
Answered 6/19/2015
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Yes and no: studies show 40% of female do not reach orgasm during sexual activities with partners. Many masturbate to reach satisfaction on their own. Women and men are very different in sexual orgasm.
Answered 6/21/2015
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Yes: Many women do not have orgasm during intercourse. Some do not orgasm intentionally to prolong the experience. Since you orgasm easily with masturbation there is nothing wrong with you!
Answered 6/19/2015
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Not abnormal: Communication is key to having satisfying relations with your partner. You can let your partner know what you find enjoyable and what would help you to attain orgasm, you should be able to attain orgasm with the necessary stimulation. Reading a resource such as "Masters and Johnson - The Joys of Sex", with your partner, would very likely hep you overcome this problem. Good luck.
Answered 6/11/2017
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