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Why do i only get orgasms when i masterbate or when i'm on top during sex?

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Stimulation: This sounds like it ha to do with how you are receiving clitoral stimulation. On top you control the angle of the friction, the same with masturbation. The direct stimulation is needed for many women to orgasm and this sometimes does not occur from a missionary position.

Answered 7/28/2014

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