Im female, i get pleasure from sex and oral sex but i can't have a orgasm. what's wrong with me? i can only have one by masturbation

Female Sexuality: You are not alone. Many women find that sexual intercourse does not lead to orgasm for them. They have to learn how to stimulate the clitoris during sexual intercourse or teach their partners to do this. Partners want you to orgasm!. I often advise my patients to read a good sex manual. The most common one i recommend is "the joy of sex".