Hi, i can masterbate all day, and reguglar ejeculate, but with a female they can play with me oral sex and orgasm there is no feeling no pleasure from?

Unfortunately: Your self stimulation habits can significant alter your relationships with women, as detrimental patterns can be developed that are hard to break. If it's as significant as you describe, consider seeing a therapist(ideally a sex therapist) to help reshape your sexual habits.

R/O OVERSTIMULATION : Overstimulation with excessive masturbation may inhibit your ability to engage in intercourse. Try reducing the amount of masturbation and developing more intimacy with your partner. If Things do not improve seek prompt evaluation lab work and exam