I have been constipated for 5 days now, tried increasing water, 3 days of laxatives and stool softeners. strained so hard have hemorrhoids, help?

Change your diet: you need to change your life style and your diet and keep your bowels regular and soft with the least use of laxative, you need to have a colonoscopy if you did not have one in the last five years, you need to eat more fruits and vegetables and eat more fibers and hydrate yourself real well, slow down on red meat and greasy food, exercise, use sitz bath and OTC medicine for hemorrhoid