I think i love being psychologically sick. i like it when ppl sympathise with me for hvng psych probs. how do i overcome ths? is this also a problem?

Yes, a problem: At least you seem to have some awareness of your patterns, which are definitely a life- limiting problem. I say limiting because such patterns incline you to spend more energy in manipulative interactions than in healthy, more direct ones. However, it depends on what you want for your life. If interested in shifting what you're doing, you could see a psychotherapist about it.