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A 31-year-old member asked:

i have an obsession about getting people to like me. what's wrong with me?

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Dr. Joseph Weiner
Psychiatry 42 years experience
Great question: You're putting your self esteem between yourself and another person. There are many reasons for this. The best thing would be to find a psychotherapist who could help you understand what's causing you to do this, and to help you improve your self esteem. Hope this answer helps.

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A 22-year-old member asked:

Can "pure obsessions" betreated?

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Dr. Barbara A Majeroni
Specializes in Family Medicine
Yes: A psychotherapist can help people with obsessions.
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A 25-year-old member asked:

I realize guys become infatuated with girls but does this obsession happen as often with girls?

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Dr. Randall Bock
Specializes in General Practice
No: Yes, it happens, but no, not as often. Nature's "vector" is such that males pursue females. Obviously there is mutual attraction, but women do much more and have much more interest in exaggerating that attraction (makeup, hairstyles, clothing).
A 38-year-old member asked:

What's the difference between an obsession and liking someone a lot?

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Dr. Steven Chen
Clinical Psychology 30 years experience
Degree and Impact: There is a fine line between liking someone a lot and an obsession. When the time you spend becomes excessive, it interferes with other things you need to accomplish, then you begin to cross over the line from a lot to obsession. It is the amount of time and the negative impact the thinking results in that defines an obsession.
A 45-year-old member asked:

What can I do to stop my obsessions?

1 doctor answer3 doctors weighed in
Dr. Steven Saunders
Internal Medicine 43 years experience
Psychotherapy?: Disturbing or bothersome obsessions or obsessive compulsive disorder can be treated with psychotherapy and or medication. Talk with your doctor.
A 47-year-old member asked:

Can I get over OCD by stopping doing the little obsessions?

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Dr. Pratip Nag
Pediatrics 18 years experience
Yes: Find a psychologist who practices cognitive behavior therapy (cbt) because they can help you get control of your ocd.

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