How can i talk to my aunt about end of life decisions?

Directly, before ill: End of life decisions are extremely important in people of all ages and health conditions. The best way to approach these matters is directly - it is important to discuss these matters open and honestly with our close family members. Printing out advanced directive paperwork to discuss (and review, sign, & witness) is a good place to start this conversation. Hospitals have staff to help with ad's.

Ask: Choose proper time & moment & mention others like friends or family & try to get herfeeling & wishes.Mention cases where people did not have directives & became subject to measures they would have otherwise declined or consented.

End of Life: When people ask me the 'when' question, that usually means that it needs to be done now. Asking about these important issues when the loved one is able to express them is the most important thing that people can try to accomplish. Resuscitation issues, medical power of attorney issues, finanical decision-making are all important to discuss.

At any time: I think that the best time is when there is not an immediate crisis so that you can have a calm discussion about her wishes and thoughts about end of life.