Reaching a climax is difficult, sensitivity may be down. yet i'm only 20, is this normal/in my control? ok i'm having trouble, and i need to know if there's much i can do about it, or if its an issue i have no control over. pretty much reaching climax is

That : That is a very common problem. First check that you are on no medications or herbs that could cause difficulty with ejaculation. Some medications can cause this problem. Alcohol can cause difficulty wtih ejaculation and is commonly known to do so. Be sure that you feel comfortable with your surroundings and don't feel pressured. If this continues to be a problem, there is treatment, so please see a medical professional if this continues. Almost all men have this happen from time to time and it is a very common issue that usually resolves on its own.

First consult a: urologist, just to eliminate possible medical issues. That probably won't turn up much, so consider a sex therapist. Does this happen with only one partner, with "no" partner? This condition sometimes occurs in males who engage in lots or masturbation and/or porn use. Do you use any product that claims to extend time in intercourse?