I'm no longer producing enough breastmilk, and want to stop all together. can i do it without taking that pill that drys you up.?

Yes: If you just stop breast feeding, your milk will dry up. Be sure not to stimulate your breasts during sex or by squeezing them to empty them. A tight binder or bra for a couple of weeks is often helpful.

Three basic plans: Cold turkey: bind yourself & send baby to others to bottle feed until they will for you.(painful & frustrating for both but some do ok.) gradual: drop a feeding every day or two, using bottle instead. At some point body drops supply & you can accelerate coming off. (less pain)third: us baby to soften soften the full breast for a minute or two followed by a bottle.This will slow milk production.