What i can do to understand my teenagers?

Be loving : Supportive , but put limit also , don't label. And make süre he is not with the wrong crowed. U can also seek help from a therapist with family therapy.

Bless you..: For trying. Go to the american academy of pediatrics home page, then the bookstore. Caring for your teen has a good compilation of topics. If you have daughters, the dance of anger and the dance of intimacy by harriet lerner are helpful. The push-pull of their trying to become independent makes it pretty tough, sometimes. It's an old saw that you'll be smarter, in their eyes, when they reach 20.