Constant shoulder dislocation e.r. dr think i'm drug seeking what do i do?

Find a SportsMed doc: Go see a sports medicine specialist, preferably someone who has a primary care or non-operative background. See if physical therapy can strengthen your shoulder (rotator cuff) enough to prevent any more dislocations. If you're beyond that, an orthopedic shoulder specialist can offer you different surgical procedures to keep you from dislocating. Be prepared for lots of rehab afterwards!