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I have a strong sex drive and my bf is a lot older than me and busy all the time..so i ended up feeling not good whenever i like having sex and not really getting it coz my bf is busy..wat can i do to lessen my sex drive?

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Honest discussion: Trying to stifle your own libido may not be the healthiest answer here. Instead, it might be better for your relationship -- if both of you are willing -- to discuss your sexual relationship together. It sounds like this may not be happening, and you say you're not feeling good. When one partner feels neglected, it isn't good overall. There are good couples therapists, if you want help. Good luck.

Answered 9/8/2019

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Talk to your bf: How well can you talk to your bf about your differences in sexual drive? If the situation cannot change, get busy with other activities, like your bf. Masturbation is another way to manage your sexual drive. If this is unacceptable, consider seeing a family or sexual therapist.

Answered 6/23/2014

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