Can people with adhd or autism ever overcome their social problems?

With help, some can.: Both conditions need to be treated, although the treatments differ between the two. For people with adhd and some people with autism spectrum disorders, social skills training and other therapies can help them.

Yes: There is a big distinction between the social problems of an adhd person & someone with autism. Adhd pts usually gain social skills later, but completely, compared to normals if treated with stimulant medication. Autism patients rarely attain "normal" social abilities. Both groups benefit from social skills training & counseling. Self confidence is most important in this area.

Work in progress: People with ADHD are different than those with autism. With control ofo impulsivity and improvement in ability to attend and focus, children with ADHD can be helped significantly. People with autism can be helped with cognitive behavioral therapy and access to social pragmatics groups and programs.