If women leak on themselves is a urogynecologist the best option?

Not necessarily: Your regular ob/gyn or a urologist can handle many of the simpler causes of urine leakage (a chronic infection for instance) and is probably the better place to start. If your situation is more complicated or you are not improving despite treatment then a urogynecology consult is always reasonable.

Usually: They have the most specific training for this sort of thing.

Usually: Especially if they are in your area and trustworthy. Nurses and your primary doc are good sources to ask.

Likely: These types of problems are the focus of the urogynecologist practice so often your best bet.

Specialist : A urogyn is a physician who specializes in the treatment of female pelvic disorders including urinary incontinence & pelvic organ prolapse.