Is there any insurance that covers tooth shaping, whitening?

Very few: Most insurances do not cover cosmetic procedures. There are very few that do. You can have your dental office preautherize the procedures first.

Probably Not: Both of those procedures are considered "cosmetic" and "optional, " so they will rarely be covered. I've personally never seen coverage for these types of procedures. There may be a very high-end dental plan out there somewhere, but the monthly premiums would cost much more than just paying for these services yourself. Improving your smile is a great investment which you won't regret.