What do you think of someone who springs work on you as you are walking out the door to see your family?

Inconsiderate, but: Probably not a medical disorder. If you feel you have an unfair boss or situation at work, you can talk to your human resources department. If you feel uncomfortable about asserting yourself in a calm & professional manner with a demanding boss, you may want to talk with a therapist to develop your confidence and conflict-management skills.