I have had mono for a week now and my tonsils are still flaring up and it hurts to swallow and to talk...now my ear hurts....what should i do?

Sorry, takes time: to get over mono. If your breathing is compromised, a short couse of steroids will shrink the tonsils and nodes and make you feel better, but do not cure the illness. Mono is often a 3 week or longer illness. Pain meds help, but staying hydrated with fluids is important. Using a mask over your face will trap some moisture and cause throat to feel less dry. Elevate head to reduce swelling.