Someone told me a lot of bad stuff about porn but i can't tell if it's all just fear mongering. if so what negative effects does it have?

Here's the facts: All men seek out erotic images; most men prefer "the human body tastefully displayed" as in a men's magazine, and critics of male sexuality do not distinguish this from the most debased junk that degrades both sexes. Pictures and fantasy and ideal bodies are a dead end if you seek real love, but very few men become addicted or lose self-control -- if you do, your physician can help. Be a man.