A member asked:

How can i reduce performance anxiety when my wife and i are trying to conceive our 2nd baby?

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Please don't forget: That sex is there to be enjoyed, not to be an obligation. Try to enjoy relating with your wife all day, not just during sexual acts. Focus on pleasuring her, and allowing her to pleasure you. Are you and she in some kind of hurry about conceiving? If so, that will intensify performance anxiety for both of you. Focusing on "getting a job [conception] done" will not help you either!

Answered 4/29/2014

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