What do you suggest if i had come up positive. i share some of the symptoms of lupus. how hard will my life be if i have lupus?

Not enough info: What came up positive? What symptoms do you have? Have you seen a rheumatologist? It is impossible to answer a question such as this when no specifics are given.

You may not have it: You may not have it. Many of the symptoms of lupus are common for a lot of other medical conditions as well as people who have no other health problems. You need clarification by your physician. people with lupus do very well and there is support from your physician and organizations like the lupus foundation. Your best approach is is a healthy diet, exercise & follow your medications.