Can you explain what are my gums supposed to feel like after i have healed from my wisdom tooth extraction surgery?

Depends on time : The healing process after any surgical procedure takes time. Now, depending on the type of procedure, extent of the surgery, and the time elapsed after that, the shape ; sensation of the gums can vary. But generally, a healthy and healed gum should be smooth, not achy, pinkish red color, ; without swelling ; bleeding. For more specific answer, please give us more specific info, if you can