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I think i have a problem i can only have an orgasm if i pleasure myself if my fianc is the one touching me i can't. if we have sex sometime i can ?

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Dr. Dustin Colegrove answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Your fiancé: May not be touching the right places in just the right way to bring you to orgasm. You have a lot more experience pleasuring yourself than your fiancé has. Would be best to provide some direction and also to I yourself while your fiancé is touching you.

Answered 11/4/2015

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