I have only climaxed during sex just a handful of times. is there anything i can do to make it easier/come faster?

Female Sexuality: I may be reading into your question, but here goes. It is not uncommon for sexual intercourse fail to cause an orgasm for the female partner. Many women learn that they need to manipulate their clitoris during sexual play or teach their partners to add this to the encounter. I often have my couples read a sex manual at some point in their relationship. My favorite is called "the joy of sex".