Hd sex wd a prostitute 3yrs ago wd cndom. tsted neg for hiv, 1yr aftr.tested for hiv 1/2 ab using home kit, this 2013, and rsulted neg. am i infected?

Highly unlikely: There are no guarantees in life, but this is about as good as it gets. Be very very careful. Stay healthy and good luck.

You're good, buddy: All guys explore. I'm glad you used a condom. You were smart. Your behavior wasn't really risky -- except that hanging out with these people can be dangerous. Be thankful for good health. I notice you list among your conditions that you enjoy your body while you're alone. That's actually healthy and good for you. Talk with a sensible adult man -- maybe even Dad -- about your new adult body.