Almost every time after an orgasm, my clitoris hurts. i would describe it as an irritating, sensitive, and tingly sensation. it lasts for several days, between 3-4. i also always feel like i have to urinate and even after i do, the feeling persist?

It is not feasible to provide a meaningful opinion without additional history, physical examination and may be some tests. Try using a water-based lubricant like KY jelly to reduce injury to clitoris from friction. If that does not help, it would be prudent to see a doctor. Wish you good health!

You did not say orgasm after sex, or masturbation. If sex- then try a different position. If masturbation use a softer object. Plenty of lubrication with both. Right now give it a rest for a few days. emty your bladder after sex. Good luck