Married fr 18 yrs no propr sex as he is hvng erectle prob n jus masturbate holdng to each othr. sumtyms sexual frustration do set in. hw to overcomeit?

Shaping Your Future: U've been struggling, living in a holding pattern (literally) 4 a painfully long time. It's hard 2imagine being able 2get 2the heart of whatever factors r at play here -incl. Medical, psychological &/or cultural/religious factors- w/out professional help. If ur mate consents, see a clinical psychologist 2gether -someone w/expertise in sex therapy. If he won't go, go urself. A psychologist can help.