Iam 24, married girl. 3 yrs completed.our sexual contact not fully success at least one tym.my fear of pain is the prob.iam very much tensed doc.wat i do?

Counseling: Counseling to help with the fear is the first line of treatment for this. It sounds like you are experiencing vaginismus in which the vaginal muscles contract so tightly that penetration isn't possible. Sometimes vaginal valium, a good muscle relaxant, is used in addition to the counseling to get to the bottom of your fears. Hope this helps.