Reoccurring bump with no head on my lip line. it doesn't hurt but when i pop it a small amount of clear fluid comes out. ingrown hair or herpes?

It would be very: unusual for a woman to have an ingrown hair on her lip line. A recurring bump on the lip line sounds more like Herpes Type I, the type that usually affects only the area around the mouth. I don't recommend popping it, It doesn't make it go away sooner and your fingers could be a source of spread to other parts of your body or to someone else. Hope this helps?