I am havin a white discharge for 3 monthes. i have lower abdominal pressure i am lossing patches of my hair. pain during sex. ?

Not normal: These symptoms are not normal and suggest a likely infection. The only way to find out and have this treated is to see a doctor for an exam which will likely include microscopic examination of the discharge as well as testing for common sexually transmitted infections. An antibiotic may be prescribed. I suggest being seen promptly and not letting this wait. The hair loss may be unrelated.