Always in lots of pain for days after sex and it can hurt quite a lot during, lubrication isn't the problem but very tight, painful for sti tests etc?

Vaginal pain: Vaginismus or dyspareunia are terms describing your condition which in the young would either be related to initial sexual experience (mechanical issues that need time to resolve; i.e. patience, stretching exercises), or if there are signs of inflammation (redness, discharge) would suggest the need for further STD testing. Many tests can be done on urine or vaginal swabs without a full exam now