I find that during sex i do net get "wet" alot, this always happens and it doesn't matter whether i am aroused or not.

Lubrication: Vaginal dryness when lubrication is insufficient, intercourse can be painful. The vagina has no glands & seepage from vaginal walls with vascular engorgement is the chief lubrication source, and the Bartholin's glands may produce mucous to aid penetrance. See a gynecologist to find out why you are not lubricating and until then use artificial lubricants to augment it.

C a GYN: A gyn can evaluate ur problem & may néed a hormonal boost. Some times a vaginal suppository is used but b sure2 c a gyn.