I really don't like to have intercourse . because it's so painful. so put sperm in my vagina with the finger. but i am not pregnant. why ?

Get checked out: We need to find out why you have painful intercourse: it can be due to endometriosis, fibroids, adenomyosis, vaginismus, scar tissue, & other causes. See your ob/gyn or see a reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist as you're ttc without success. We also check for blocked tubes, low egg supply, low sperm count. Sperm on a finger is less effective than intrauterine inseminations (iui).