My husband has hpv and i have slil, must i only use condoms now?...because i get irritation from them.

No: condoms do not protect from transmission of hpv between partners.

No benefit: Hi again, I believe I answered previously and offered that at this point, with your husband knowing that he has HPV and you likely having a manifestation of infection with a positive Pap, there likely won't be beneficial protection to use condoms now. Likely both of you will clear the HPV infection over time. Best wishes!